Welcome to our new series: Growing Safe Together: A Summer Safety Series for Families. This summer, we’re here to support parents with resources and education to help keep children safe. Each week, we’ll explore a new topic together and share simple, practical strategies you can use right away to build connection, strengthen safety skills, and help your child grow with confidence.
Week 1- Connect: Helping Children Identify Trusted Adults
Teaching children how to identify trusted adults is one of the most important safety conversations a parent or caregiver can have with their child. Rather than focusing only on “stranger danger,” many child safety experts recommend helping children recognize the qualities of adults who are safe, trustworthy, and able to help in difficult situations. A trusted adult is someone who listens, respects boundaries, stays calm, and takes a child’s concerns seriously. It is also important to emphasize that children should know they can talk to a trusted adult whenever they feel scared, confused, or uncomfortable—not just when there is an obvious emergency.
One helpful strategy is to create a short “trusted adult list” with your child. Encourage them to name at least three to five adults they could go to for help. Ideally, this should include one at home, one at school, and one more outside of both home and school, such as a relative, coach, church leader, or counselor. Explain that a trusted adult does not ask a child to keep harmful secrets, ignore personal boundaries, or stay silent about something that feels wrong.
Another strategy is to role-play simple scenarios. What should they do if they get lost in a store? Who could they talk to if someone makes them feel uneasy? What can they say if they are feeling scared? Practicing these moments helps children build confidence before they ever need to use the skill.
Most importantly, remind children that they will not get in trouble for speaking up. Keep the conversation age-appropriate, calm, and ongoing so they learn that asking for help is always okay. Safety education works best when children feel believed, supported, and empowered to trust their instincts. By regularly talking about trusted adults, families can give children a practical tool that supports both confidence and protection.
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The NETCAC provides educational information for families, schools, churches, and community groups across Northeast Texas. If you or your organization is interested in more information, or hosting an educational event, please contact Caitlin Graham at (903)629-7588.
